Don't respond to his next email for 2 or even 3 days.
I know I am repeating myself, but it gets tedious to watch you acting like a puppy chasing his tail.
Round and round you go, and nothing and I stress NOTHING changes.
He makes promises.
You believe them.
He doesn't follow through and then you wonder why.
Each thread contains the exact same words.
You want to know why.
You want to know when.
You want to know if.
Enough already.
Lets do what we said we were going to do from the begining.
No more talk about him.
He is gone.
He has his own life now.
Get some type of help for financial help, either chid support or maintainance.
Go see someone to secure your finances.
Set up a regular visitation for your Daughter.
If he shows up, great.
Have no expectations.
You asked me what I think of your Husband and his MLC.
I don't know your Husband, I only know my own.
I can tell you that he may or may not be in MLC.
He may be a WAS who simply had enough of the BS at home.
He obviously is not happy in his life and maybe some of it has to do with his Marriage and some of it has to do with other stuff.
You have not made enough changes in your own life to make a difference to him.
That is all I know from following your threads.
Dar, I am not being unkind, I am being honest.
Too much of the blame for everything goes to the MLC'er rather then takng a good hard look at ourselves in the mirror, it is easier to shrug it off and say, oh it's all part of MLC.
That is total and complete Bullsh*t.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
