My H wants to leave and get his own place "as soon as he can afford it." But then his actions do not seem like someone who is looking for his own place. I understand the fear that you have. My H told me that he loved me and wanted to work on our M and bolted after 2 days at home. It is very scary to think that it could all happen all over again.

I actually had a similiar conversation about having our accounts back to joint accounts. I think the finality of it scared my H and he was acting the same way yours did with the insurance. I think just leave things like they are for awhile and take a breather.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08