Shouldn't I bring this to his attention? "H, you know that you need to deal with this . When are you going to deal with this?"
Michele says, if your marriage is on the brink of divorce, and you demand and pursue, it will most likely push him away. Remember how it felt when you were young, and your parent insisted on how to handle things? What happened?? Rebellion! Your H needs to figure things out himself. As for now GAL, do a 180, and do not talk about R issues! You want the prize, not the D!