I have put my wedding ring back on as I am committed and want to heal our relationship. ...... I will have to start speaking with her about the divorce stuff ...... It looks really bad and hopeless I don't want to give up but what can I do against such a wall?
Do what will heal YOU right now. Want to show your commitment, then wear your ring - but only because YOU want to.
Don't want to divorce? Then you don't HAVE to talk to her about it...just put some distance between you for now.
Up against a wall? You can go around, go over, paint it to blend in with your view, or knock it down. But in any case, start by focusing on YOU right now!
Someone herre has a tag line in theirr sig "Be the greener grass" and that has become my mantra. It might be that you are cultivating a fantstic yard for your NEXT relationship, but whatever you do....get your own lawn in order.
You can't "fix" her. Only you.
(Suddenly having a flashback to the old Kung Fu series..."When you can snatch the pebble from my hand, it is time for you to leave" LOL)
