Ya know the way you described it is sounds like IF I WERE in your sitch. My Wife would feel the same way. I see your point. I think you are right. Sometimes our wives take there anger, and low self esteem out on us. They "can't be the problem" so it must be us right? I think your plan sounds good. AND I KNOW what you are saying about putting your arm around her. I would have done the same thing for the same reason. (Well around my wife not yours). Damned if you do and damned if you don't right? Keep it up big guy. Every sitch is different. Some you need to nip it at the bud in the beginning others ya need to take your time. Some you can only work things out together but then others ya need to be apart to see what ya are missing. The trouble is you don't know which one you have until ya try. Later Dr Love
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
