Eva,

I am sorry that your H is acting like such an a** but what will having him followed do? Other then cost you good money!
At this point I think you just have to focus on you, making you better, you know the usual things, work on getting PMA, and gal.
It might be a good idea for right now anyways to let him go!
I know its hard, and I know you want things to be better, however if he were to find out you had him followed what do you think his reaction would be? I most likely wount do anything to bring you closer.
So just focus on your life, and the life of your kids, make those things your priority!
Nothing you can do right now is going to bring him back any faster, so move your focus away from him!


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda