No code,

" In fact, I suspect W is allowing others, including people very important to teaching and nurturing our S's, to conclude that it is I who is breaking this family up, and even that I am the one who is being unfaithful."

Ya know My fisrt W ws the same way, but I didnot take the time to explain anything to anybody I had nothing to hide. (my fisrt W became addicted to cocaine, I had no idia.) she left me with a 3 mo old and a 3 y old D's.
in the end the truth comes out. I NEVER spoke bad about her to my D's I just told them that she had "problems".
now at 25 and 22 they want nothing to do with my X. they know what I went thruogh without me saying a word..

I really need to go to bed
talk to ya later

DrLove


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know