then tell him that he needs to make the commitmernts mentioned above before he can move in. If your that scared then yes he needs to meet ya that far to prove this isent another half-a$$ attempt. if he gets mad let him. he realy needs to make efforts here. otherwise your just getting strung along at his whim. But if he truley wants to make it work then yeas he has to attemp to be fair and allow you to set boundries .
