I wish I could wave a wand and bail everyone out of this misery.
It takes a lot of hard work, a little luck and a spouse that will eventually meet you half way. Once the WAS realizes that they have a lot to lose they will start working with you.
Key to success...
1. Give me lots of space 2. Do not talk about the relationship 3. Let WAS initiate most contact 4. Patience and Time 5. Chemistry evaluation - Do you have it?
