I know what you mean about TV. I was watching one of those 48 hours mysteries (which I usually enjoy watching) and it was about a husband who was cheating on his wife with the babysitter and ended up killing his wife! Oh my gosh, I was bawling so badly and freaked out.
Sara
I know in between the time I found about the affair and when he broke it off (with her)for the ten days,(before he moved out)I had thoughts about her coming into my life and hurting my kids or me. I was certainly looking over my shoulder. I don't now that's he is out of the house. I told him you never know who is a weirdo out there and of course, he defended her and said she would never do that. Of course, I am sure that's what every spurned lovers spouse thought, right before they got it.
I don't worry about it now. I just was really mad that he invited that possability into our kids lives.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too