Hi, everyone!

I totally agree with everything you're all pointing out and saying.

Originally Posted By: Sara
I'd buy the damn fan. He wants it, and by doing it you show you care about what he wants. What's $10 or $20 if your marriage suffers for the lack of spending it?


Funny you should say that! Right after logging off this morning, I told myself, "Screw it! I'm just going to get the damn thing, and if he gets mad, then oh well, he gets mad." I can deal with that a whole lot easier than the tantrums!

BUT....now I don't have to because after H woke up, he went to (friend)'s house to get more things. Including his fan!

AAAAAAAAH!! I wanna laugh and scream all at the same time, dang it! \:D

Originally Posted By: klm
Question: If he had stayed there the last 3 nights...then why did he pick the third night to realize the fan wasn't there and the clock was fast?


He had the fan issue from the very first night he was here, but after 3 days, I suppose it all boiled over. I asked him, everyday, if he wanted me to buy one, and he always said no. He would get the one from (friend)'s house.

As for the clock, it's on my nightstand, so I was setting it every night for him, except Friday when he went to do it himself.

Time and patience......I know, but it's so hard. This really is the hardest it's been for me.

I'll be back again later. I have to take S12 to his martial arts class now.

(((((Thanks to you all, ladies!)))))

Last edited by GoingForward; 03/12/08 12:53 AM.
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