I'm familiar with the thoughts. They can suck the life right out of you. That's the last thing you want to happen when reconciling.
So debra, she's attractive. That could be what got his attention in the first place. But, look where his is today, Debra. I am assuming that it was his choice to come back. As corny as this sounds, it's whats inside that counts. You debra, are fulfilling the majority of his emotinal needs, if not all.
He married you debra, he fell in love with you. Why? What do you think it was that made him fall in love with you. It wasn't your looks. He was attracted to you, but that is not the reason he fell in love and married you. You have something very special, something the ow doesn't have.
No one stays beautiful forever. It's what's inside that counts.
