Purr, Sorry to read your post.I understand the sorrow and desperation you feel. This is really a horrible time in all our lives(one we could never have imagined) I don`t know, and know one knows, if your dear wife will ever wake up to reality. Certainly mine is still on the Planet Zog. The GAL is for you(not your wife) I am 10 months into seperation(today)now, still hurting,still grieving still wanting her to come home. I realise now that whatever I do makes no difference. She is off in her own reality even though everybody else (including me) thinks she has gone insane. You have to prepare yourself for a long haul to get through this the end result may not be what you want. Please believe me(((YOU))) will go on.
