BobbiJo, Sorry I did't post on your thread yesterday...H stuck around all night so I couldn't get on DBing. Your H said he didn't respect you for taking him back all of the time and forgiving him so easily. They say love is blind, huh?! You were right by sending the text you sent him. It is time he knows that you will not just forgive and forget this time. I let my H know that last week and he is still around. I never made him take responsiblity for the way he treated me in past. So of course patterns have repeated themselves. I have decided I won't let it happen again. You have to decide if you are at that point. It might mean losing your H forever, but you are an awesome woman and you don't deserve to be kicked anymore.
I thinik you need to make some plans to do something for yourself this weekend while H is around. Leave the kids with him. Enjoy some time to yourself. I can tell you after 15 years of having a kid by my side, it is nice to do things on your own. At first it will seem a little lonely, but you will grow to relish that time.
