Not sure how to handle this

[mishka422]

WOW! That's really great! Thanks.

H is having a HORRIBLE day. He had asked me if I had added his car back on to the insurance. I told him I hadn't yet because I needed the VIN number and his license number. He didn't text me back with them. I called him and asked if he wanted me to change the insurance and he stalled. I knew right then he was having second thoughts about everything....again!!! I'm going to kick my own butt for believing him when he said he loved me and missed me. I swear, I'm such a fool!

I calmly asked him if he wanted to wait to change the insurance. He said his head felt like spaghetti and he really doesn't know what he's doing. He then asked me about the C offered through my church. I told him it's a couples C. He asked if they offered individual. I told him I wasnt' sure but our health insurance covers that and I had the numbers of a few that I checked into when I was looking for a C. He asked if I could give him their numbers so I did. I think it's good that he wants help for himself. He needs it badly.

I'll continue praying for him and keep my hope alive but I'm expecting him to bolt again at any moment. I'm just glad I'm in a better place than I was before to deal with it. The last time he came home he stayed for all of 5 days and pretty much ignored me the whole time and kept going to OW house. Now he hasn't ignored me but he turned pretty cold after day 2 home and it's only been 5 days again. I really can't stand this and it's going to kill our son if he walks out again.

If he does cut and run without a decent fight I will have to tell him that he can not come home again until he is completely straightened out (well, not in those exact words but the same idea).

Have any of you had to handle this situation with your WAS?