and John... I agree with what you said so much. A year ago I would get mad at anybody taking s&%t form their Hs or Ws the way I did and some of my friends on this board do. Funny how we grew during this process and how we changed our view of things.
BBJ, sorry I didn't post any today. I 've been busy at work and I had to wait till my kids would go to bed. I like your attitude on the last few posts. Stay AWAY from drama and misery as much as you can. There is only so much you can do FOR him. You need to take of your kids and yourself. Let him grow up and get responsible towards you. Just as you said it "It is his turn to do the heavy lifting".
