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maybe i should have said something different or maybe i should have been nicer.

I just had to respond to this, others have said it already but having BTDT you can't blame yourself, I found out my H with ow 2x, forgave him, was loving, forgiving, a friend an ear, anything and everything, NOTHING changed, he wouldnt' let go of her and betrayed me still while lying to my face, he was too chicken to let go of her and tell both of us the truth.

I'm sorry you find yourself here, but I cheer for you as you take matters into your own hands, my prayers your way))))))))))))))

aka cat03


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.