Or maybe he would be willing to sign a quit claim deed just to move the D along faster?
Why not try to use the inevitable to your advantage?
Have you have the house appraised recently and do you know what it is worth for sure? Values here in the US are shite and it is a good time for refinancing but a horrible time for selling. Anyway, I think you have a bargaining chip here and your H may go for it.
I thought all would be awful too after my D, even thought me and the kids would be forced out, but guess what?!! On Thursday I will sign the refinance papers and this house will be in my name only! Woot woot!