H told me so much, will not tell OW the truth about anything, doesn't want to lose her as well. I have always protected him from everything, especially from himself, this time I just can't do it anymore.
Remember this wise words you posted, it is hard to see them fall on their faces and screw up, but that's the only way the will learn. I tried so hard to help my H and all along he still did whatever he wanted and went back to ow when the emotions hijacked his brain, didn't matter that I was bending over backwards to please him, help him, heard him talk about his feelings for ow, consoled him, etc, nothing led him to take a look at the horrible damage he was inflicting on me.
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Hitting bottom is the only way they can turn around... because there's no place to go. Only he can choose to turn himself around.
I'll tell you what I was told long ago "you cant' save a man from himself"
My prayers your way))))
aka Cat03
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
