Oh, and one more thing... In my last thread I made a comment about a massage gift cert that was purchased on V-day that I noticed on our bank statement, while I got NOTHING for V-day. Last weekend, H tells me, "I want you to have something. It's your Valentine's Day present." He hands me the gift cert.

So, I was wrong. It wasn't bought for the OW. Not that that excuses anything, but it did make me feel a little better.

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."