so heres a question, is anger a normel part of all of this? for the last couple of days i have woke up and been realy angry with my wife. i got married for a reason, and this wasent it. I have shown my W changes in me that were painfull to do and some that were easy, but they were changes geared to makeing both myself and the marrage better. all she has done is worked on herself. i am worth something besided as a object to bash on verbely and then enjoy when she sees fit. i dont know today is hard. i got hit on last night by a very attractive woman. i HATE the fact that the woman i love is nothing like the woman i married. i realise my faults, but she kind of rubs my nose in them. when she was over on sunday and i told her i was wrong she kept going " wait what was that.... i didn't hear that so well what did you say" i took it as hjokeing at the time but now im just a little resentfull. im not a bad person and im tired of being treated that way