Frank it isn't YOU she's pissed at as much as it is that SHE doesn't have the means to support herself right now and the precise reason she treats you like crap, in spite of all her warm and fuzzy spirit talk that seems to apply to her interactions with everyone EXCEPT her family, is because everything she's surrounding herself with IS A LIE.
I can tell you - from my experience solely as a MLCer - forget that I am a believer for the moment - when she is being mean, snotty, short...with you...it's because SHE is realizing that SHE can't afford to take care of herself, which she so wants. She is realizing WASTED TIME. This is good thing for her OVERALL if she one day lets it be. This is a part of the process that IS INDEPENDANT of you, so stop making everything out to BE ABOUT YOU - just stop it.
Get over yourself, Frank.
You finances didn't go tits up by your hand alone.
She could have dragged her head out of the clouds YEARS AGO and got a real job.
GET OVER YOURSELF.
50-50 Frank.
There is no getting around it so STOP TRYING TO CARRY HER HALF as if she were a child.
