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INCLUDING, going back to church with me, going to MC with me, and of course, no more calling ex-gf's.


THIS needs to happen first, do not let him in too fast, that was my mistake 2yrs ago, my H came back for the wrong reasons and things are now the way they are.

It's way to soon, yes, there IS such a thing as moving back too soon! it is dangerous. I know your heart aches to have him back, but to save you from bigger heartaches, from going back to same ol same ol' you must see some changes first!!!!

BE CAREFUL and patient. Tell him that you very much want to work things out but that you only have the past few months to look from (the anger, the gf, etc etc), that you need to see his changes first.

Fist things first, schedule a MC this week, and see what he's all about.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.