Wow, a lot happened this weekend!! BTW, I totally understand the fan thing (although I don't understand the way he complained about it)...I CANNOT sleep without a fan. Question: If he had stayed there the last 3 nights...then why did he pick the third night to realize the fan wasn't there and the clock was fast?
This is a huge adjustment for both of you. Try not to take the things he says personally. Don't argue back with him. Eventually he will get tired of yelling at someone who isn't yelling back. Just let him throw his temper tantrum by himself.
I know the arguments are draining, but I believe he wants to be there. It is going to take a lot of work and a lot of patience. I am glad he is packing things up and staying there more.
