I am really having a hard time talking to her. She is just so 'done'. She doesn't seem to even 'like' me and comes across with disdain when we talk about finances. She is snippy and says things that come across as an attitude that she is 'in financial trouble because of ME'. It pushes my buttons because I know that part of it is true. It's hard to ignore.
She seems to also have an attitude that the bills she DOES pay now are all she will have to pay. No clue whatsoever what the rest of the bills are.
I hesitate to talk to her about it because I just don't want any more emotional crap from her. She could very well try to force a bankruptcy on us and I have some deals in progress that may make a difference. I just don't need the pressure and the hurt.
She's just angry. I wish she could afford to move out but she can't right now. I don't understand how someone can treat you like this after supposedly loving you for so many years.
Sometimes I wish I could run away. It seems to work for her.
But I can't. I have to go through this so I can be strong again.
