Dear Andy, I hope I'm not late with my post and you're still here on board (and still Andy :)). Thank you for your kind words and good wishes.

Sorry, that your W found the DB. I don't really know what one may expect from MLCer in such situation.
I hope she will see your DBing for what it is - unconditional love and understanding. If not now, then later, when she is out of the fog. I hope your story will be the one with happy ending!

Having said that, I must admit that I'd be VERY uncomforatable with my H finding out about DB. I would do the same thing - change my username and start a new thread.

I wish you all the luck! May be you can stop by my thread again later...

I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders
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M 46
H 45
D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08