but for some reason H wanted me to acknowledge him or something, and he kept saying, Karen did you hear me? I have to leave now. a couple times, so then I turned around and just kind of mumbled, Yeah, bye. Probably did not follow DB protocol here, but I mean does he expect me to say "Have fun with OW? or something?
I love it, that was great!
Originally Posted By: karen43
Sunday had a lot of positives DB wise for me I think. I was having a really good PMA day, feeling strong and happy for some reason. I did about 5 hours of cleaning, I mean even the walls and light fixtures! H has been nit-picking (I think it was GF who told me about this) and finding stuff to complain about, and there is nothing at this point for him to find! I have lost all extra weight (40-45 pounds) and with the 3 hour dance workouts am in pretty good shape. When we are together like yesterday, we are usually laughing and joking and having a good time.
You go girl! You are awesome. Right now your H is trying to figure out "who is this person and what has she done with my wife that made me so miserable". Keep up with the changes not for him, but for yourself, he will notice it! Talk about a PMA, you've got it!
By the way the way he so nonchalantly talks about his OW in front of your kids, ooooohhhh that makes me sick!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon