Thanks for the input Jeff....you are right...no more R talks.

We're heading to IL after work tonight. Driving straight through for the visitation and funeral. H took the news fairly well, was upset, but seemed to be handling the news alright. He didn't sleep all night and looks exhausted today. He's called me from work several times in tears and seems to really be taking the news hard today. All of this is very understandable since we were so close to this man....but I also think it's kind of a reality check for H. The trip home will do us both good. Seeing friends and family will be extremely helpful.

Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

BA


Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally