BND, I want H back because I do love him and he really is a good person (before this MLC came into play anyway). I'm sure you wanted your H back as well b/c you knew this MLC man wasn't the same guy you married.
When we email, sometimes I reply right away and sometimes I wait at least 1 hour. Again, it's just small talk.
Do you not see him being a good guy and wanting to want to get out of MLC? If you see something else, please share.
I'm trying to have the no expectations BND, I am. I know it would be easier not to have them as well. It's just as hard for me to have no expectations as it is to pretend he's dead like suggested when I first came on board here.
