It does matter what you do. There's no magic words to make him realize what he's doing, but there are a ton of things you can do to push him away and make him more set on getting a D. While he is going through this addiction, you need to focus on not pushing him further away and making you and your S happy.
I'm glad you are having a good day.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2