You're right! I fail to recognize the fact (and so do they when posting to me) that I am no newcomer...I've been at this for years. But what about getting back to basics? does that even apply in my sit?
Still doesn't help me to be certain with what to do about the m. I appreciate your reminding me that I am not a waw...but if all waw's posted here first wouldn't their stories sound like mine? wouldn't they be just like me? maybe the difference is a typical waw wouldn't come here and certainly wouldn't hold out for so many years waiting, hoping that something would change the dynamic.
I guess I'll have to get myself a copy of PM and see if it can offer me anything.