Sara,

Thanks for stopping by, I went over a little bit above what actually happend with us.

I would love to go to that, but because of my H's schedule, I don't know if its even do-able. He's under a lot of stress right now with his business.

I have decided to start focusing more on things I like to do when Im able to. Even if the kids are with me (which is always) Im going to start finding projects to do with and without them and try to get myself upbeat and positive.

I don't think he's cheating, but having the rest of this to deal with is almost as bad.

Thanks for your input, I will continue to work on us, im not giving up by any means.

tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.