I don't remember much of your sitch, but an unhappy time in Disney is just what we did before I caught on to H's affair. He was a whining, complaining, horrible person to be with. And he would send me off so he could sit on a bench and call OW.
Theo is right, if you can find a way to get your H to go to Retrouvaille with you there is hope. It takes two people and open minds and willing hearts. That's all. You are clearly in the Misery stage of marriage. Check out the website, http://www.helpourmarriage.org and read through the stages, then look for a date and location for a weekend near you. Believe me, no couple going there walks in believing it will work for them. But the transformation is incredible. By the second day they are walking arms around each other, laughing and whispering in each other's ears. All it takes is a willingness to go and listen. And Theo is correct, you do not share your story with anyone else there -- only your spouse.
