Hummmmm.... there's a wee little part of me that wonders if you want to have this conversation with your husband because you want to have a R conversation and get him to admit whether he plans to stay for the next 4 years....
This is just a thought I had.... I may be completely off base...
P.s. This is something I could actually see myself doing. Indirectly fishing for answers. I tend to do that....
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.