Yeah, I think it is justifiable...but I only get frustrated about it every now and then.

H just called and he got the job he has been interviewing for!!! He starts tomorrow. With this job he will definitely be able to take care of his bills. He also told me that he wants to keep the job at the restaurant to try to pay off some bills. He ran up a couple of credit cards when we separated and he definitely needs to take care of those.

I may have been more excited than him. I feel like a weight has been lifted off of me. I mean I have really been worried about him having the money to eat. Now maybe I can let go of my worrying about him. He needs to take care of himself. I think he needs to prove to himself that he can do it alone.


Kris