BT - Your sitch is status quo and unfortunately, based upon the circumstances, this could continue for a very long time unless you force her hand.
Personally, I would go on the offensive. Make her nervous.
Tell her that you recently met with your lawyer and within the next 2 weeks you are going to make a decision regarding filing for divorce. Tell her that your lawyer advised you to be the plaintiff. Make her think that you are ready to move on and you want the divorce.
It may force her hand.
Things are very good in my world. Feels good to be back in the house and to be enjoying my time with W. We are giving each other LOTS of space. This is a big adjustment.
In less than 3 weeks we will be on a plane to the Caribbean. Wow - I never thought that would have been happening 4 months ago.
For us, it was all about chemistry. We really missed each other. We also have a better understanding of our roles. W understands that she married a "man's man" and I understand that I married a successful businesswoman. We are a hell of a lot better together than apart. Kidlet is SOOOOOOO happy that mom and dad are back together.
