..and you shouldn't be played again. This is going to take a long time. It took 33 years for your W to get to where she is presently and it is NOT going to erase in a few months of rehab. It is definitely a step in the right direction.

I don't like what the rehab counselor told you nor do I like the fact that they are involved in anything related to how she should handle the disposition of her M. I would avoid ANY discussion of those issues with the rehab counselor...as you have wisely done.

My sister once gave me a saying which, initially, I thought was awfully negative. She gave it to me years ago, but, the more I go thru this, the more I think it applies:

Quote:
G-d bless those who expect nothing for they will never be disappointed.

I think this goes along with the old Star Trek episode that Jeff223 relates to me, Spectre of the Gun. Do you know the episode?

Hang tough.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;