I started last week after finding this site to back off. After reading the book, I really did a 180 and started doing things for myself and GAL. Well, I can already see the signs....
Last night I was leaving the house to take my D to basketball practice when my W pulled up. I waved and started to get in the truck. Instead of going on in the house like she usually does, she came over to the truck, so I stopped and talked. I could tell something was different. We talked for just a short time and I left telling her we needed to get to practice. (ending the conversation before she did). When we got home, she had dinner ready and we all ate. She commented on how good the bedroom looked (I had done some cleaning) and left to get a few things at the store. When she got back, the kids and I were folding laundry, so she helped. I got the impression all evening that she really was having second thoughts. Just the way she acted.. I just watched tv, took a shower and went to be. I told her the normal good night and that was it.
This morning, she came in the bedroom to the masterbath and started her water. Then, she got in bed for a few min while the water ran. I held her for a few seconds and then rolled over, not to give too much. This is the first time she has gotten in bed with me in over two weeks!!!!! I didn't say anything and just kept my normal conversation the rest of the morning. She said bye to me 3 times before she left. Very good signs!
The point is, I changed my attitude and my approach toward her. Its working, so I am keeping with it and watching my goals to adjust as needed. Just had to tell someone!!!
