Tipper,
He moved back, but the light bulb needs changing. I feel that he needs counseling. Just keep up the GAL and 180s for now so that his trust in you is built up. At a more appropriate time,suggest counseling.

You need to set new relationship goals, and boundaries. The Keeping Love Alive (KLA) series will jump start it. Please check the KLA forum yourself. Its a great resource! At this present time, do not show H.

There is Bi-Polar, Borderline Personality, and others. Next time, I hope he rejects self-denial. Proper diagnosis and treatment received!

All the Best,
/Tia