Hi Stella_K stay positive you seem very grounded to me and I have really appreciated your support re: my situation, a real tower of strength.
I have just found out that my W is snooping on my laptop (not sure of the meaning of this in MLC) and has been reading my posts on DB. All the advice is not to let an MLCer know about this site so I may have to start posting under a different name.
Good luck and keep visualizing what it is you want, I find a positive image of the future (no matter which way it goes) helps (me anyway) detach from today. The more detached the less anxious etc etc. This is the MLCer's problem to sort out and it seems to be that all we can do is be patient and help facilitate at each stage of the MLC.
