Thanks Sandi2 - I have been trying to take queues from him just like you suggested. It's really hard since he is not forthcoming with anything and really never has been. H is a police officer so his job is obviously extremely high stress. He loves it but it wears him down and he shuts his emotions off because of it but then he can't turn them back on at home. It's a major problem for us.
Limbo - I will definitely bring it up to him. It does sound like a program that would be non-threatening to him. If he doesn't have to share with anyone else then possibly he would be comfortable with the idea. Again, I will look into it further and see if I can find one near us.
I appreciate your input so much! Thank you!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!