My H never really left me, but he continued to have his affair on and off for sometime, and then even attempted another EA with ow from his teens! But I still stood. I think only you can make that choice as to when to stand and when to not. I do truly believe we are all strong people to stick by them, to love them as much as we do! At first I thought maybe I was staying with him out of fear, you know can I cope money wise, being on my own, that type of thing, and I knew that I could. So it was because I wanted to stand, I wanted to stay. True alot of people wount understand, and they can't unless they are faced with this situation. So you hold you head up and feel nothing put pride in yourself, because you are doing what is right for you! I know at some point you will know when its time to move on!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
