Not sure how to handle this

[limbo]

Mishka,

I think that the Retrouvaille would be a good place for you to start, its not counselling, and you don't share with anyone but each other.
You both do all the work, no one stills between you telling you what to do.
It is truly a wonderful experiance, and it really does teach you how to communicate, and you also learn conflict management. You learn how to have conflict without it getting out of hand, by approaching it in a calm and productive way.
My H and I have never talked like we are now, and my H would never talk about his feelings, and now is very comfortable doing it.
Talked to you H about, present it to him not in a C way but in a way to make you marriage better, to get some good tools that will stay with you and you will use for ever.