Thanks for the support and thoughts. The problem I have now is the rates have went back up till they are at or above what my primary mortgage already is but I need to do something with the secondary mortgage that is a variable rate.
For now refinancing has to go on hold as this week is the March Cluster of dog shows in Louisville! I saw somewhere in the literature that they still claim it is the largest all breed dog show in the country.
My girls really are not ready. I need more time but we are out of time!
AG I think you sent me something. Just kidding but boy am I feeling rough. Coughing, eyes watering, head ache and just so darn weak. The coughing had sort of let up yesterday evening and I'm not running a fever so I went ahead and went out to dinner with friend G. We don't see each other very often anymore so I didn't want to cancel out on him. He is doing great and it was good to catch up with one another. I told him Tx called me bullheaded yesterday and G LOVED it. I think I might have aggraviated that man a time or two in the past! He told me about his lady friend and that they took a vacation together last year and this year in July they are going to Hawaii. I said hmmm...this sounds serious! He said he just isn't ready to bite the bullet again, that the lady isn't anything like J. She is sweet, kind and loving but what he feels is a red flag is she has no friends. We talked about that a bit last night. J nor D either one used to have friends, (no idea now), and both G and I feel we would consider that a red flag for us in a future R. It was a fun evening and I should have stayed home and trained or groomed dogs.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"