moving from MLC- It's Lisa

[LisaLost]

Thank you all for your posts. I have my first appointment today with my lawyer-well the first one for this time- He is the same one I have seen throughout this whole thing. So today we will redo the D paperwork we had from before- I am trying to be strong. I went for my hearing for a permanent restraining order and received it so it is good for a year. He asked for temp visits the kids and the judge told him no then he told the judge he wanted to watch the boys play their baseball games- We just started our season here. WE have 3 that play currently and our oldest also is on a travel team. That means that I have practice or a game with them every night of the week and weekend tournaments with the oldest. I told the judge that I felt safe with him coming to the games since there were deputies out there anyway. He granted him that so he is able to come 30 minutes before their games and practices and has to leave 30 minutes after. The judge told him to thank me for that b/c he would have given him just 1 hour a week at the supervised visit center

I hate what this is doing to the kids. once again they are upset. 2 of them had their first games of the season last night and he showed up. Our oldest didn't speak to him and our 7 y/o was excited to see him but then got upset when he left. My friends told me he is still wearing his wedding band.

Also my friend that he is living with says that he thinks that he is going to go through whatever the courts tell him with counselling and such and then in 6-8 months win back his family.

what really goes on in their heads?



Love,Lisa