I was going to jump in when Sandi first moved over to piecing cos my initial thought was Wow!! is this guy hounding Sandi.
I thought the first post from Dom should have started and ended with this.
Originally Posted By: Dom R 03/03/08
Glad you feel comfortable enough in your marriage now, to post here,
And the second should have started and ended with this.
Originally Posted By: Dom R 03/06/08
let me also add, that I am really happy to hear the more positive side of things between you and your H still! YOu have improved things between you two a whole lot in the last few months. Way to go!!
From the outside looking in all the subsequent stuff written just seem like someone was being brow beaten (almost bullied) into accepting a different way of thinking.
We're all here to help and support each other, but if the advise given is not being received well, then we should be able to hold our hands up and say well that's my point of view and we'll leave it at that.
So Dom, I've read a lot of good strong advise you've offered out to others, but maybe on the subject of Sandi's MLC or not you should draw a line in the sand and say well that's my point of view and we'll leave it at that, but I'm here to help if you need me.
Ok I dont want to start a posting war but thats my 2 pennies worth