You have to give him space Dar..thats what he wants, thats what hes tried to get by walking out on you and your D. Its ok to have neutral daily small talk, but DONT ASK HIM about your R !
It will be counter productive. You just need to be there for him whilst he works through this depression. Do you think romance or building an R would be the first thing on your mind if you were feeling as low as him? I know its frustrating you arent getting what yuo want (as it is for me as I suspect my BF is depressed) but if it helps..tty putting yourself in his shoes?

I suspect, being an Aries girl, you struggle with being patient?? Seems you want him to strat R talks as soon as you have a nice day or two of conversations? Its not confusing, other than he is confused I guess, because he has depression? And thats not nice, if you've ever been depressed, you would know.

Try doing something to help you be patient..what about yoga or meditation, or listening to music to distract your mind when you get frustrated that things arent moving fast enough?

I dont know...maybe others have some better advice, but it sounds to me like annoying as it is, in order to get what you want you may only get that by not getting waht you want, for now.. give him space to think and get over his depression!?

Ali xx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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