Wow.

that's tough. tough to figure out what you can do for your marriage, if your wife wont say anything about it.

maybe you'll want to tell folks what it was like when you were first married, vs when daughter was born, vs when she started couch sitting.

(and whenabouts you two stopped doing anything fun together. Has there been "no fun" for the last 2 years, basically?)



In the DB books, it suggests basically, "if you cant figure out 'what works' in your marriage now.. try to figure out what USED to work, between the two of you, and then try to do those things again".
so.. maybe that's something you could start thinking about also.




Last edited by Dom R; 03/11/08 06:52 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle