I have been reading your thread and see that you have been going through some tremendous pain and ups/downs in your relationship. I can only imagine how difficult it has been to have him close and then pull back like this. Seems like there is so much confusion going on for him, like he doesn't fully know himself right now. On the other hand, you sound like you are managing some very difficult boundaries with him and staying as grounded as you can. My thoughts are with you during this painful time.
