I am so happy to read how things have turned back. You both seem to be approaching things with some clarity but cautious pacing. That's what makes me feel really encouraged in reading your sitch over the last several days...it seems like both of you are doing this differently. Good for you for finding that balance of staying grounded and also letting things play out.
I feel really proud of you and happy about your sitch, though I feel quite down about mine right now. I hate that hopeless feeling; sometimes I just don't know how I'm going to get through any of this mess. Anyway, it's good to read some success stories and hear about some freed up sense of love rekindling in people's lives.